Practical steps that will help you stride into your first BDSM play session with kick-ass confidence
This book is for new dominant women who are anticipating their first BDSM scene. It's an exciting time, but it can also be nerve wracking because no matter what, first times can be scary, and there isn't a lot of really practical advice out there to help.
When I was new, I just wanted someone to tell me 'how to do it', to give me concrete advice and help, so I had a starting point from which to make my way. This is that 'how to'.
This short, sharp guide describes 13 easy steps you can take to help you make your first BDSM scene amazing. It's designed to take some of the pressure off (yes, that pressure you are putting on yourself) with practical, actionable steps that will help you feel more confident and kick-ass going into your first scene.
It covers how to:
* Choose what activities to do in your scene
* Put together the flow
* Start and end well
* Look after your submissive in scene
* Build your confidence and manage your nerves before and during play
* Handle it when something doesn't work Leave your submissive wanting more
* Do aftercare
BONUS: FREE BDSM Scene Planner: This planner will help you use the information in this guide to plan and run your scene.
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Sharyn Ferns is an experienced dominant woman who started her BDSM explorations over 20 years ago. She has been writing the award-winning Domme Chronicles blog for more years than she cares to count, and moderates the largest F/m discussion forum in the world. Her books are born out of her experiences, interactions, and conversations she has been having with dominant women and submissive men over those many years.
She is passionate about submissive men, about writing, creative thinking, mindful living, and about seeing beauty in the world. She's a confirmed introvert despite the fact that she spews every intimate detail of her personal life out in public with verve and enthusiasm.
As a dominant, she is loving and selfish, affectionate and demanding, generous and uncompromising, deeply passionate and reserved. Complex and unique, like most people.
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