Simple, practical steps to help submissive men find the dominant woman of their dreams
This 'How To' Femdom guide is for submissive men who are looking for an ongoing relationship with a dominant woman and who have tried any number of things without success.
Whether you are seeking a romantic partnership with all the D/s trimmings, a female led relationship (FLR), an ongoing 'friend with kinky benefits', or a long term BDSM play partner, this guide gives helpful actionable no-nonsense advice to get you on your way.
* Things to do before you start (i.e. 'figuring some shit out on your own')
* Places to meet dominant women (online & in RL, BDSM & vanilla spaces)
* How to figure out if you're compatible (busting the myth of 'me sub, you domme = yay!')
* How to approach dominant women (online & in RL, dos and don'ts)
* How not to get in your own way (avoiding common mistakes)
* Five steps for writing a great introductory note (not formulaic or a template: genuine thoughtful help. This is a major hurdle for many promising newbies)
* Examples of introductory emails that actually worked
* Warning: How to spot online scammers
As an experienced dominant woman, I've been on the other side of many interactions with submissive men, and I've talked to thousands of F/m folks over the years about their experiences: I know that well meaning fabulous submissive men can get in their own way without even realising it.
So let me help you get on the right path.
'How To' Femdom Guides
Sharyn Ferns is an experienced dominant woman who started her BDSM explorations over 20 years ago. She has been writing the award-winning Domme Chronicles blog for more years than she cares to count, and moderates the largest F/m discussion forum in the world. Her books are born out of her experiences, interactions, and conversations she has been having with dominant women and submissive men over those many years.
She is passionate about submissive men, about writing, creative thinking, mindful living, and about seeing beauty in the world. She's a confirmed introvert despite the fact that she spews every intimate detail of her personal life out in public with verve and enthusiasm.
As a dominant, she is loving and selfish, affectionate and demanding, generous and uncompromising, deeply passionate and reserved. Complex and unique, like most people.
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