Cultivating Smart Marriages
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Separation or divorce in marriages is a painful thing both to the divorcing partners and worse off to children.Children are robbed of their rights to grow up in the tender love of both parents. Lack of awareness understandin of individual personality types and emotional intelligence proves to be the highest cause of marriage breaks and separation. This book will help you maintain your marriage. It will help you understand yourself more, your behavior, emotions and feelings. It will help understand and love your partner better than you do now.
You will undestand how to smartly resolve some marriage breaking impasses in your family. You will know how to put value to your family through maintaining of unconditional love to you partner.
This is a marriage intervention strategy work book endowed with care and awareness tools for creating and maintaining happy, peaceful and successful marriages through cultivating of the right marriage mindset towards relationships.
Davison Nzembe
Life Coach and practicing Human Resources and Business Administration in Zimbabwe. Emotional Intelligence Teacher. Over thirty years in the field of Human Resources and Business Administration. Graduate from the University of the People USA
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Cultivating Smart Marriages - Davison Nzembe
Contents
Chapter 1: Marriage is a Natural System
Chapter 2: Marriage Depression
Chapter 3: Core Marriage Values
Chapter 4: Marriage Resilience Character Strength Analysis
Chapter 5: Emotional Awareness in Marriage
Chapter 6: Love and Happiness Awareness Circle
Chapter 7: Marriage Conflict Resolution Tips
About the Author
Reference Sources
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Chapter 1
Marriage is a natural system
In human terms life stretches in stages from infancy to old age. Every stage being as good as the other in so far as life is concerned. Yet the most critical and seemingly awaited moments of life in humans begin in the adolescence stage when teenagers start feeling that they need a friend of the opposite sex. During this stage teenagers tend to admire adults whom in their minds appear to be free to make whatever choices they desire including getting into marriage life. Even the kindergartens play games mimicking the life of adults and sometimes in the form of married parents.
What all this points to is that marriage is basically a tool to enhance life by giving joy and happiness to the couples with the ultimate purpose of making a home. A home in marriage is a hub of the final sweetness and goodness of residence. As signaled by everyone needing to belong to a home. A home is one’s pleasant and natural dwelling place where one always longs to stay because that is where one fills spiritually and naturally at rest and satisfied. I believe that that is really according to God’s plan for satisfaction and fullness of life in humanity.
In order to enhance His plan for the purpose of a home, God intended that a man and a woman stay together and make a home and family.
To many of us who are now adults and in the early fifties, we know how beautiful and sweet it was in the days of our youth when we first entered into marriage with our loved ones and started making our own homes. My own memories certainly tell me that really life in marriage is sweet.
Marriages are by nature designed to last forever until death does the two apart. Marriages tend to have a special element inside them, the force of intimacy which leads the two to leave their parents, brothers