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    Why Can’t I Find Love:Personality Growth
    Why Can’t I Find Love:Personality Growth
    Why Can’t I Find Love:Personality Growth
    Ebook74 pages34 minutes

    Why Can’t I Find Love:Personality Growth

    By Lesiba Ignitiuas kekana

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    The book is about a young man who is walking a journey of mastering his own emotions and actions. He was always asking himself why can't he find love? He keeps on asking himself these questions and he wanted to understand what's wrong with him since he started to realizes that love is within him.

    He had a bad experience dating girls who are not taking the relationship seriously and he decided to change his thoughts about always believing girls are the same. He applied methods that he created for himself for emotional control throughout his journey. One day his friend decided to host a party and he asked Ben to help him out with the preparation.

    Ben discovered the girl of his dream at that house party. They shared a lot and did a lot during that whole weekend. Ben was so happy that he finally met someone who he can call his girlfriend. One day Ben saw his girlfriend in unexpected place with another guy(second boyfriend) having a good time together .

    The story continues when Ben starts to realize that emotions in long-term learning, he had to experience pain by losing people who are to close to him.

    That's where he finally finds love.

    Learn more about how Ben handled his scenario using the method he created for himself to master anything that has to do with emotions. This is a perfect book to help you master your own emotions, find love and grow your personality. The book also contains imagines of the characters during the scene.

    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherGarther Publishing
    Release dateJul 5, 2022
    ISBN9798201788568
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    Lesiba Ignitiuas kekana

    Lesiba Ignitiuas Kekana is also known by his stage name Kevin Kekana. He is born in South Africa( Limpopo in a small town called Mokopane). He is born on 25 October 1998. . He believes he is the most gifted author that ever walked on earth. His goal is to create the biggest online library. He can both write non-friction and friction books. He enjoys most writing stories and educating others about his discoveries and research. His logo and signature is #IamKevinGotTheMainIdea   .  

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      Why Can’t I Find Love:Personality Growth - Lesiba Ignitiuas kekana

      Chapter 1: Personality Growth

      I’m curious if it’s insecurity that drowns me down to these past thoughts, why can’t I find myself moving forward from these thoughts. Why can’t I find love? . I want to learn more about myself maybe if I start loving myself first perhaps I’ll get the answers.  Self-awareness that’s what I started with, I found myself investing most of my time and finance on some things that I don’t care about. Why ? I asked myself that question.

      I have to be honest to myself if I want answers. I feel like I was doing all this spending because I wanted to impress my peers, I wanted to put pressure on them. So they can see me as a person who is living a fancy life, a life that I can’t afford. Honestly, even if I try to budget for it, I can’t maintain this fancy lifestyle. I had to separate myself from these people and find people who I can grow with. I had to be friends with people who can benefit me in the future.

      I realize is easy said than done. It’s not easy to find people who are well disciplined and who stay true to their commitments(laughs). I guess I had to find inspiration somewhere else. YouTube! , YouTube was the solution. I watched biographies and interviews of the most influential people in the world. I had that burning desire that I felt like I can accomplish anything in the world.

      Then through research of videos, I found my hobby. I wanted to write a book about all information I gathered. I’ll make specific research on a subject and write a book about it.

      The love of writing a book didn’t take a day or 2 but a month or two of research, commitment, discipline, and hard work. I wrote 4 Novels and I wasn’t satisfied at all. I wanted to write about something that I relate to, I want to write about my problem and the solution to my problem.

      Emotions !, I have a problem with emotions. Sometimes I can’t control my emotions. Anger and violence are my most response. I feel embarrassed sometimes because I would cause a scene instead of keeping my cool and ignoring the negative energy. I read books about emotional intelligence, and to be honest, I felt bored(laughs)because it’s hard for me to apply everything there. I just feel hopeless. I took a break for a few days, so I could just cool down my mind. One thing I learned from the books I read is when coming to reacting to people’s emotions. You must feel different, meaning you have to see people differently in their ways. To be able to do that you have to experience the life they are living by absorbing and analyzing why would a person react in such a manner. Sometimes the reason is because of the way we were raised or our environment.

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