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    Is There Love Here?
    Is There Love Here?
    Is There Love Here?
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    Is There Love Here?

    By Yasmin Jasmy

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    Contrary to popular belief, love is not blind.

     

    Love sees with eyes and ears wide open, absorbing everything it encounters as it exerts its subtle influence on our physical, mental, and spiritual health. If positive relationships with ourselves and with others can lead to spiritual growth, will the lack of love then lead to spiritual decay?

     

    In this collection of 175 poems, Yasmin Jasmy explores the dynamics of love and not-love and the way our bodies have been calling us to pay attention to the status of our hearts. In an effort to encourage self-awareness and radical self-love, Yasmin invites you to pause and ask your heart: Is there love here?

    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherYasmin Jasmy
    Release dateMay 9, 2023
    ISBN9786299807315
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      Is There Love Here? - Yasmin Jasmy

      Cover: is there love here? yasmin jasmy

      is

      there

      love

      here?

      yasmin jasmy

      Copyright © 2023 Yasmin Jasmy

      Published by Yasmin Jasmy

      Petaling Jaya, Selangor

      mind-pause.com

      ISBN 978-629-98073-0-8 (Print) 978-629-98073-1-5 (Digital)

      All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system, or transmitted, in any form or by any means, electronic, mechanical, photocopying, recording or otherwise, without permission in writing from the publisher.

      The right of Yasmin Jasmy to be identified as the author of this work has been asserted by her in accordance with the Malaysian Copyright Act 1987.

      Cover design by Benard Uwuondo

      Illustrations by Benard Uwuondo

      Typesetting by Teaspoon Publishing

      for little amin

      words

      words nurture –

      they propel us as quickly

      as they burn us –

      it’s how we use them.

      words reshape our

      lives; they shed light

      on our shadows; they

      amplify.

      words make us

      real – they

      describe the experiences

      we feel and they create a world in

      which our pain

      exists.

      the lamp

      reflection is the lamp

      of

      the heart

      start here

      i

      There is

      power

      in sharing the heart’s questions,

      and the answers

      when we find

      them.

      ii

      Love is the will to extend [oneself] for the purpose of nurturing one’s own or another’s spiritual growth. A definition Bell Hooks borrowed from M. Scott Peck’s book The Road Less Travelled. Lying on the grass, reading these words for the first time, I cried. The words ‘spiritual growth’ felt right in my heart.

      Upon reading that definition so many questions burst out in my mind. What if we experience spiritual decay, then? Is that an absence of love? Are we aware of the actions that cause spiritual decay in our relationships to ourselves and others? For the purposes of this book, I call the actions or inactions that give rise to pain and suffering not-love.

      Interestingly, people with a history of abuse or neglect are more likely to suffer from depression, substance abuse, and other behavioural issues than those who do not.¹, ² This aligns with the idea that not-love leads to forms of spiritual decay. We also cannot ignore how our physical health is influenced by our spiritual health, as is seen in heart patients.³

      Our intelligent bodies have been signalling, calling us to pay attention to the status of the heart – is it benefitting or suffering from the quality of our closest relationships and regular interactions? Unfortunately for us and contrary to dominant belief, love is not blind – it sees with eyes and ears wide open, absorbing everything it encounters. Thus, it is time to take stock of our experience and ask ourselves: Is there love here?

      iii

      I organised this book into two parts: Not-love & Love. Not-love deals with what hurts a heart and Love with what pleases it.

      This is how

      it’ll make sense to the mind,

      but the way it’ll make sense to the heart

      is by reading between the

      lines.

      part 1: not-love

      1. self-neglect

      Love nurtures us to

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