He IS "him." He IS "her." He IS everyone. When you fight. When you ARE the lion. When you avoid fight, when you avoid Love, when you avoid to offer, everyone becomes the small white sheep of our story.
The Citizen is "the guy next door." Not a superhero. Not someone from outer space. Instead of looking for Guides, become the Guide of your life!!! Opportunities are EVERYWHERE. Literally in front of us.
But with a catch. We see them ONLY when we are ready to embrace them. If we don't, we have to keep searching.