<p>Sonya Contreras can’t claim any suffering in her life, unless one counts struggling through science degrees at Cedarville University or Institute for Creation Research. Marrying her best friend certainly didn’t bring any suffering, only a better understanding of God’s love. But suffering seemed close when she disciplined her eight sons. She shares her struggles over her own self-ruling nature when she <em>writes about what matters</em> at www.sonyacontreras.com.</p>